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Alain de Botton on work and marriage
Jul 08, 2009
» Alain de Botton on work and marriage
The author of The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work, De Botton suggests that our historical attitudes towards work are in parallel with our attitudes towards love. In the beginning, work was “an unavoidable drudge and nothing more,” and so was marriage. In the eighteenth century, things began to change:
In the pre-modern age, it had widely been assumed that no one could try to be in love and married: marriage was something one did for purely commercial reasons, to hand down the family farm or ensure a dynastic continuity. Things were going well if you maintained a tepid friendship with your spouse. Meanwhile, love was something you did with your mistress, on the side, with pleasure untied to the responsibilities of child-rearing. Yet the new philosophers of love now argued that one might actually aim to marry the person one was in love with rather than just have an affair. To this unusual idea was added the even more peculiar notion that one might work both for money and to realise one’s dreams, an idea that replaced the previous assumption that the day job took care of the rent and anything more ambitious had to happen in one’s spare time, once the money had been hauled in.
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